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Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling #5

This event is hosted by KJ Paul Karaoke and it is the best party he throws all year. He is throwing his big feast and costume ball again for the 5th time. This time he has upped the ante and it will be bigger than ever. You don't want to miss it!

The event is called the Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling or the Folly Feast for short.

The Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling is a Feast (Feast) and a Costume Ball (Fashion & Fling) where each of the 28 rooms, the Saloon and the Wedding Chapel all have different events (Folly) happening all at the same time, all night long! The mood is turn-of-the-century and the style is extravagant, polite and sexy (Flirt). It is a brief period of indulging one's impulses. Just to be clear, the Folly Feast is a polite and sexy party, not a sex party.

There are 5 bands: Carletta Sue Kay, Mark Growden, Freddie Price, SPARKBOX and Rube Waddell. There is Burlesque, the Wink & Yoni show, Short-Term Weddings by Dr. Hal, Karaoke, Musical Sing Along, an Irish Coffee room and much more. There are 28 theme rooms, a saloon and a wedding chapel.

The event is in Virginia City, Nevada. There is a bus that leaves from the San Francisco Mission District on Friday night and returns Sunday evening. People can come up on Friday and leave on Monday. The hotel turns into a giant slumber party after the event winds down.

The price for the event is $150, which includes the bus ride. There are also a limited number of $100 tickets.

The Facebook event is: https://www.facebook.com/events/438145036286173/

We are pretty much taking over the entire town for a night, renting rooms in nearby hotels for people who don't want to party all night, performers who need a costume change place or for people bringing kids etc. Eileen, Chicken and Alice will be there!

The Duke Dutchy is casting a wide net, so if you want to go buy your tickets ASAP while tickets are still available!

Here are some of the extravagant happenings at the FFFFF #5. What do the words Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling mean?

Thanks again,

Duke Dutchy (aka KJ Paul de Jong)

FFFFF #5 Lineup
FFFFF #4, 2012 photos:
FFFFF #3, 2009 photos: Ty   |   Sandwich Girl
FFFFF #2, 2008 photos: Laurin Patti   |   Jordana Jo   |   Tony Brasunas   |   Sophiesunset   |   Danyol  
FFFFF #1, 2007 photos: photo room


There are no tickets sold at the door so you must make arrangements in advance or you will not be let into the party. Tickets are $100, $150 and $200. For each $200 ticket sold there will be one more $100 ticket available, so please pay what you can afford. If you want access to the discount page email Dutchy@DukeDutchy.com with "FFFFF #5 Tickets" (5 'F's) in the subject line. Also please let me know who referred you or how you found out about the event.

There will be a bus leaving from San Francisco on Friday night, returning late on Sunday. The bus is included in the price, so use it! If you need a ride, the will be rideshare information provided. We will also make one airport run to the Reno Airport on Saturday. Please let me know how you plan to get there so I can help everyone get there.

Every room in the Silver Queen is open to everyone during the night of the party. Let me know if you want to create a theme room...there are 28 of them. If you are worried about being up all night, I will provide info for a near by hotel where it will be quiet. Friday and Sunday is a slumber party, so bring a sleeping bag for those nights.

What is a "Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling"? Please explain!

The Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling is a fun, sexy, extravagant, eccentric feast and costume ball; fun, debauchary and sexiness will happen, but the FFFFF is not a sex party.

This Year's Lineup!

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Fling: A brief period of indulging one's impulses
Feburary 1st, 2014, 7pm

The mood is turn-of-the-century. The style is extravagant and sexy.

Spend the night with us at The Silver Queen, a fabulous grand hotel
in Virginia City, Nevada, a town stuck in the 1870s.

We have use of all 28 well-appointed gorgeous rooms, plus the Saloon and Wedding Chapel.
The Feast will begin in the Saloon with a variety of lovely entertainments and toasting.

Ticket information above. Email dutchy@dukedutchy.com to reserve your ticket(s).

Come early and explore the town. Take the train ride. Then spend the entire night
bathed in Fashion and Folly while you Feast and Flirt during the all night Fling.
Lust, laugh, dance and philander until the morning's light while being serenaded
in beauty and having all of your senses fulfilled. Amazing live performances
that will make your hair follicles stand on end in delight while you revel
in the delicious camaraderie of the well-esteemed -- albeit scandalously clad --
patrons of this fling of flings.

This is a sexy party (not a sex party!) so come be sexy and free in polite, dressed-up company, play dress-up, gorge, gamble, flirt, philander, dance, and sing -- all to your hearts' content, all in the polite company of Sirs and Madams of equal desires, passions, and aspirations, all beautiful, all naughty, all nice, all NIGHT!

Your honorable presence is thus and therefore much anticipated.

Past events: FFFFF #4 Invite - FFFFF #3 Invite - FFFFF #2 Invite - FFFFF #1 Invite

Virginia City is an old prospecting town and is where the "Comstock Motherload" was found. The Comstock Motherload is the largest silver deposit ever found. There are still active gold mines there. You can take a tour of some of the old mines, ride the train for a tour on the area or jump on a stage couch for a ride. There are tons of amazing costume shops where you can buy amazing costumes and there is even a costume rental shop where you can rent authentic old time western where. I really encourage you to come up on Friday and leave on Monday if you can. You will be blown away!

Here is the lowdown on what I have so far:

4, maybe 5 bands (so far)

  1. Carletta Sue Kay playing upstairs only throughout the night.
  2. Mark Growden and his band will be playing all three venues
  3. Freddie Price will be playing all three venues, plus the Wink and Yoni show plus playing with Mark etc
  4. SPARKBOX (Kelly McFarling and Megan Keely) will be playing upstairs
  5. Rube Waddell (still confirming...fingers crossed)

Saloon and wedding chapel 7-10pm main show + all night

  1. Wink and Yoni during dinner
  2. Mark Growden
  3. Freddie Price
  4. Short-term weddings
  5. Feast
  6. Burlesque
  7. Taxi dancing/Saloon girls/Madam

Piper's Opera House (while Saloon is reset post feast) 10-midnight

  1. MC-ed by Emma Nation
  2. Rube Waddell (still confirming)
  3. Mark Growden (full band)
  4. Burlesque between acts?

Upstairs rooms 28 rooms

  1. Big Baby room hosted by Spy!
  2. Musical Sing Along Room! Watch Musicals...Lyrics provided!
  3. Carletta Sue Kay. Live performances.
  4. RPerry magical bar
  5. Karaoke room. Self Service Karaoke all night long!
  6. Irish Coffee room! Fresh and Amazing!
  7. Freddie Price
  8. Mark Growden
  9. SPARKBOX (Kelly McFarling and Megan Keely). Live performances!
  10. Costume...hundreds of them!
  11. Glowing bubble bath. Rub-adub-dub!
  12. The BIRTHDAY Room complete with cake, champagne and spankings.
  13. Psychedelic room
  14. Dance Hall room
  15. ...13 more rooms to go

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Theme RoomsWould you like to design and host a theme room for the night? Please email dutchy@dukedutchy.com to present your idea.

Past years room themes have included:

  • Feather Room - Someone brought a huge pile of peacock feathers and visitors were tickled and teased with bunches of feathers.
  • Movie Room - Twin Peaks and other artsy movies were projected on the wall while we reclined in peace to enjoy.
  • Photo Room - Cameras and props were set up for saucy photo sessions!
  • Game Room(s) - Spin the Bottle, Strip Poker, Game Show, Bingo!
  • Musical Performance Room(s) - Amazing musical extravaganzas have been staged in individual rooms. Freddi Price, Wink N Yoni, Carletta Sue Kay and many more!
  • Casino Room - Spin the Wheel of Fortune and win a shot of rotgut!
  • Costume Room(s) - Get dressed and undressed, switch clothes with others! Costumes available, plus you can bring special outfits to share!
  • Karaoke Room - Of course!
  • Tea Room - Tea Party Lounge... All kinds of teas and treats!
  • Irish Coffee Room - Whiskey AND Coffee...yum!
  • White Room - RPerry ranting and raging in an all white room, dressed in white with a giant white globe filled with colored lights serving white russians!
  • Wink & Yoni Show - Aloha...you know you want to!
  • Puppet Theater - Apocolypse Puppet Theater
  • Wedding Chapple - Short-term weddings. Get married for an hour or for the night! All weddings automatically annul at the end of the Fling.

Tailor the party to your own desires by choosing the rooms you like and avoiding the ones that don't fit your needs. There are 28 rooms, all with differnet things going on in them. Make you own room. What's your idea? :)

Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling #5 Flier

What is a "Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling"?

As defined by www.thefreedictionary.com...only somewhat selective and very slightly modified, but without changing the meanings.


    1. Foolish behavior: absurdity, foolery, foolishness, idiocy, imbecility, insanity, lunacy, madness, nonsense, preposterousness, senselessness, silliness, tomfoolery, zaniness. Informal: craziness.


    1. A large, elaborately prepared meal, usually for many persons and often accompanied by entertainment; a banquet.
    2. A meal that is well prepared and abundantly enjoyed.
    3. A periodic festival commemorating an event or honoring a god or saint.
    4. Something giving great pleasure or satisfaction: an event that is a veritable feast for the mind.


    1. The prevailing style or custom, as in dress or behavior: in high fashion.
    2. Something, such as a garment, that is in the current mode: a swimsuit that is the latest fashion.
    3. The style characteristic of the social elite: a man of fashion.
      1. Manner or mode; way: Set the table in this fashion.
      2. A personal, often idiosyncratic manner: played the violin in his own curious fashion.
    1. Kind or variety; sort: people of all fashions.
    2. Shape or form; configuration.


    1. Meaning #1: a seductive man or woman
      Synonyms: coquette, vamp, vamper, minx, tease, prickteaser
    2. Meaning #2: playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest
      Synonyms: flirting, flirtation, coquetry, dalliance, toying


    1. Bastardized. The act of flinging: Participating in a Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling.
    2. A brief period of indulging one's impulses.
    3. Informal. A usually brief attempt or effort: You take a fling at going to a Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling.
    4. A brief sexual, romantic relationship or short term marriage.
    5. Custom. An event or elaborate costume ball such as the Folly Feast Fashion and Flirt Fling.

Come join us in this debaucherous fling of FLINGS!

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